What’s Too Early? A Real Talk Guide to Wedding Planning for 2027 (or Even 2028)

So you just got engaged and you’re over the moon — cue the ring selfies, Pinterest binges, and daydreams about first dances and perfect florals. Maybe your wedding isn’t for a while. Like, a while a while. We’re talking 2027. Maybe even 2028.

Now you're wondering... am I planning too early?

Short answer? No. You’re not too early. You’re just excited. And that’s a beautiful thing.

But let’s get into it with a little real talk — because while dreaming big is absolutely encouraged, there are a few things you can hold off on (and a few you can totally start now).

What You Can Start Doing (Even Years Out)

1. Start Dreaming on Purpose

This is the fun part. Collect inspiration. Build Pinterest boards. Start thinking about what kind of day feels like you. You don’t need to lock in decisions yet, but gathering ideas early gives your vision space to evolve naturally — without the pressure of a fast timeline.

2. Talk Budget + Priorities

Even if the wedding is far off, having early conversations about budget and priorities with your partner (and anyone else who might be contributing) sets a healthy foundation. It’s not about locking in numbers — it’s about getting on the same page.

3. Research Vendors + Follow Their Work

While most vendors won’t book more than 12 to 18 months out (photographers included), it’s never too early to start following the ones you love. Learn their style. Read their blog posts (hello!). See how they communicate and what their past clients say. That way, when your window opens to book, you're ready.

Pro tip: Start a list of vendors you love. Bookmark websites. Save Instagram posts. Create a "dream team" folder. It’ll make future you so happy.

4. Consider Season + Location

While the date may still be flexible, now is a great time to think about the feel of your day. Are you imagining spring blooms or a moody fall wedding? Do you want to get married local, or somewhere destination-worthy? Thinking through these early helps guide your decisions when it's time to get specific.

What You Can Chill On (For Now)

1. Booking Vendors

Most vendors won’t open their calendars more than 18 to 24 months in advance — especially photographers, planners, and florists. Why? Because a lot can change in the industry, and they want to make sure they’re available, aligned, and ready when the time comes.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t reach out. If you’re obsessed with someone’s work, follow them, join their email list, and don’t be afraid to say, “We’re planning way ahead, but we love your style and want to stay in touch.” It puts you on their radar without forcing a commitment that’s too soon for both of you.

2. Booking the Venue

Some venues will book years in advance — especially if they’re wildly popular — but many won’t open dates until 18–24 months out. You can start touring and gathering info, but don’t stress if you can’t reserve anything just yet. You’ll be ready when the time comes.

3. Getting Overwhelmed

Repeat after me: there’s no award for being the first person to plan a 2028 wedding. There’s no secret deadline you’re missing. Planning early isn’t a problem — unless it starts to feel like pressure instead of fun.

So… Is It Too Early?

No. It’s not too early to start dreaming, saving inspiration, talking about priorities, and figuring out what kind of experience you want to create. It is too early to book most vendors, but it’s not too early to fall in love with them, learn from them, and get yourself ready for when booking season opens.

You’re allowed to be excited. You’re allowed to plan slowly. You’re allowed to take your time. This is your story — you get to write it at your own pace.

Until then, soak it up. You’ve got time. And that’s a gift.